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This is an interesting post I received in my inbox through Quora digest. I liked this story so much that I started taking it seriously and couldn't resist sharing the same with you all. Along with the story I would like to add few more points - (i) avoid pessimism (ii) learn to let things go (iii) love yourself unconditionally. The story goes here:-

A friend shared this with me few days ago and I'd like to share with you too:

The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being, she said, "Hi, handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven  years old. Can I give you a hug?" 

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze. "Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.

She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of children, and then retire and travel." 

"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this  challenge at her age." I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me.

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk non-stop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was  introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.  

Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and  simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this  whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know." As we laughed she cleared her throat and began:

"We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success."

"You have to laugh and find humor every day."

"You've  got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so  many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it!"

"There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are  nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. 

If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I  will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any  talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding the  opportunity in change."

"Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't  have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."

She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."

She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the years end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died  peacefully in her sleep. Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.

GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY, GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.

Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. 

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I am a SAP Consultant in my late 30s, residing in the happeing IT City - Bangalore. My interests vary from reading to travelling to handicrafts to photography. My latest interest is on Body building. May be this vivid interest keeps me going in my life without getting bored.

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